“Life is short,” they say, so live it to the fullest. INFJs feel they have little time in this life. Right after the website was finished and live, I was burned out and unable to do any concentrated work longer than 30 minutes. I just couldn’t stop because I was so engaged - until my body let me know I needed to take a break. I was so immersed that I even forgot to eat. So I built my website while learning about all aspects of websites and blogging, which led to an intense month in which I spent 16 hours a day doing this. For instance, when I started my blog, I knew nothing about websites or blogging - and I was very excited about it and wanted to learn. However, an INFJ has to be careful when they are in the midst of these frequent knowledge binge modes due to the sheer intensity of them (especially when a few are happening at the same time) - it has led to burnout for many. They’ll read books and articles or watch videos on the topics and think deeply about their underlying principles over and over (and over) again. So they feed their minds daily only to be satiated after absorbing a subject’s essence. They immerse themselves in the subject matter and aren’t satisfied until they understand its core. The enthusiasm that awakens when interesting novel ideas and beautiful concepts strike them has led to countless sleepless nights.
It’s not uncommon for them to be reading a few books at once, for when something grabs their interest, it is like they are under a spell. A slow-burning fire, gradually burning up the heavy pieces of charcoal, but in intense heat.Īll of the above makes INFJs intense because they’re always learning, diving into those heavy topics all at the same time. The INFJ’s curiosity is like a fire that only concerns itself with the biggest charcoal briquettes at the bottom of the barbecue. Often, they’re about psychology, philosophy, ethics, arts, or even complex technical sciences, like computer science or engineering. The INFJ is often very much interested in substantial topics, particularly abstract and paradoxical topics that you can’t really figure out in a day (or even weeks or months). One thing we know for certain is that INFJs like to know things - their minds can be extremely curious and they let that curiosity take them anywhere really. Curious about why INFJs can be intense? Let’s look at five reasons. INFJs themselves are often also strongly affected by it, as it has a huge impact on how they live their lives. However, despite its allure, this intense side can be overwhelming to others who interact with the INFJ. For example, their intense daydream stare into the vast sky, which will make you wonder which planet they will take off to next.
With their empathy and warm listening skills, they will make you feel so relaxed that you’ll tell them your deepest secrets after first meeting them - they also seem to have a pervasive enigmatic intensity. These four core characteristics describe the way this personality type navigates through life. “INFJ” is an acronym which stands for Introversion (I), Intuition (N), Feeling (F) and Judging (J). The INFJ is one of the eight introverted Myers-Briggs personality types, making up roughly 1-2 percent of the population.
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